Sexual Formation

Toward sexual health

At CrossPoint, we believe every part of our lives is being formed, including our sexuality. The way of Jesus invites us into wholeness, surrender, and faithfulness in this area of life.

We believe sexual brokenness is not the story of a few people, but part of the human story in a sinful world. This is why we want to be a community marked by both grace and truth as we help people trust and follow Jesus in every area of life.

Because Jesus cares about the whole person, he desires to bring healing and wellness to our entire lives from the inside out, which includes our sexuality.

Our commitment

We believe God’s design for sexual expression is found within the covenant union of marriage between one man and one woman, and that following Jesus calls us to turn away from sexual practices outside of divine design. This includes any relationships, pornography, or patterns that distort God’s original design and good purposes for humanity. We believe our sexuality should reflect the imago dei in which we were created.

We are committed to walking with people patiently and compassionately, seeking to understand the deeper places of identity, desire, pain, and confusion that often shape our stories. We believe the mercy of Jesus meets us there through the presence and power of the Holy Spirit, and by the grace of God, healing, transformation, and holiness are possible for every person.

Sexual Integrity 101

Sexual Integrity 101 is an 8-week course in partnership with Pure Desire Ministries, created as a powerful discipleship and equipping tool for the entire church. Designed for men, women, college students, parents, and leaders alike, this series provides a clear starting point for anyone seeking sexual integrity—whether for themselves, their children, or those they love.

Use the link below to our wellness waitlist form to let us know your story. And look through our list of groups offering hope to see the specific ways we are ready to walk alongside you.

Groups offering hope

Seven Pillars of Freedom
This group is for you if you are a man who has been struggling with pornography, sexually compulsive behavior or addiction, fantasy, affairs, emotional affairs, or online activity you can't seem to stop—even when you try and try. The secret is exhausting. This is where it ends. Whether your struggle is new or decades long, this is a safe place to be honest as you work with a certified leader and a group of men who get it.

Group details:
  • 10-month commitment
  • Weekly 2-hour group meetings
  • Small groups of 4-7 men
  • Free, except the cost of the workbooks
You will leave this group having found support, deep relationships, and freedom.
Betrayal and Beyond
This group is for you if you are a woman who discovered his pornography use, affair, compulsive sexual behavior, strip clubs, or years of inappropriate online activity—and your world has been shattered. You didn't cause this. But you're living with it. Whether the discovery was yesterday or a decade ago, you will benefit from completing this group work with a certified leader and a group of women who get it.

Group details:
  • 10-month commitment
  • Weekly 2-hour group meetings
  • Small groups of 4-7 women
  • Free, except the cost of the workbooks
You will leave this group having found support, deep relationships, and freedom.
Unraveled
This group is for you if you are a woman who has been struggling with pornography, sexually compulsive behavior or addiction, fantasy, affairs, emotional affairs, or online activity you can't seem to stop—even when you try and try. The secret is exhausting. This is where it ends. Whether your struggle is new, or decades long, this is a safe place to be honest as you work with a certified leader and a group of women who get it.

Group details:
  • 10-month commitment
  • Weekly 2-hour group meetings
  • Small groups of 4-7 women
  • Free, except the cost of the workbooks
You will leave this group having found support, deep relationships, and freedom.
Hope for Men
This group is for you if you are a man who discovered her pornography use, affair, compulsive sexual behavior, strip clubs, or years of inappropriate online activity—and your world has been shattered. You didn't cause this. But you're living with it. Whether the discovery was yesterday or a decade ago, you will benefit from completing this group work with a certified leader and a group of men who get it.

Group details:
  • 10-month commitment
  • Weekly 2-hour group meetings
  • Small groups of 4-7 men
  • Free except the cost of the workbooks
You will leave this group having found support, deep relationships, and freedom.